Or Say That Again Real Slow
I have been traveling for over 30 years. I do not speak another language. I have tried to learn other languages and found that I just do not have a talent or the proper ear to speak the language back. Is it fear? Most likely. Is it laziness? Don’t think so.
My husband speaks fluent Spanish. He’s been speaking it since grammar school. He studied it again in high school and refreshed his skills in night school the year before we began to travel. His Spanish skills got us through all of Latin America and in some of the countries in Europe. Spanish is spoken in almost half of the countries in the world so this one skill is huge for us.
In Croatia they speak Croatian and while the language looks really hard (they have almost no vowels in their words) it is pretty easy once you study it. In many of the countries we have traveled to even if Spanish was not the primary language Mike’s Spanish was enough to help us muddle our way through.
Now, I can and will say phrases that have helped me on my way. Really important things like; Good Morning, Please and Thank you, Where is the Bank; How far is the grocery store and my personal favorite – Where is the closest toilet! We also look up phrases or important words on our computers and write them down and show them to vendors or sales people and that always works as well.
We have not found a software program or a portable translator that has good reviews so even though they might make our lives easier we tend to do everything the old fashioned way, we fake it! Now we do not shout at people; we do not make obscene gestures to anyone and we do not barter with people to get our message across. We try our best and mostly, if we try, people will try to meet us halfway and we can communicate well. After all they are trying to sell us something or show us something too so it’s in their best interests to meet us half way.
For some reason I am able to listen to what someone in another language says and I can tell Mike what they want in English. Not sure why but I seem to be able to pick up the languages I hear quickly and to know what they are asking for or what information they need faster than Mike who does have a slight hearing loss and no hearing aids. Together we communicate well.
We have not allowed our lack of language skills to stop us from traveling somewhere or in getting someplace. I suppose this might change in the future but we are certainly not going to let this stop us from exploring or in getting to see or know a place. Now you might be wondering how we can travel or see things and learn more about a place or a culture by just muddling through and in not speaking the language. Try this. The next time you are in a foreign country ask someone if you can take their picture. Better yet, take your picture with them and smile. For some reason that smile makes you friends and friends are going to help you communicate; or buy that loaf of bread; or find that toilet.
Yes, it would be wonderful if Mike and I both spoke 12 languages. But we speak the one language everyone does understand, the language where we come in peace and we want to be friends.
Florence Lince
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